Steps to follow when trying to Discover Infidelity
We start our marriage living day after day, trusting in our spouse and dismissing the smallest thought that suggest us that he or she will be dare to cheat on us. However, one day we realize in a snap that for some time our spouse has been behaving different than usual. After realizing this, gradually the thoughts of being cheated monopolize our mind.
Usually if you talk without probes with your partner, the chances that he or she will deny everything are huge. Therefore, if you want to have peace of mind, or if you would like to have more evidence before talking, you will need to make your own investigation.
Fortunately, during this time of high technology, catching a cheater is easier than ever before and it is just a matter of time and the proper methodology to learn the truth.
Here below I will show you the basic places to start looking and you should be able to discover any infidelity following this methodology, however if you feel that need more detailed information and explanations, you can find further information in our specialized resources.
We will not call things with a different name, let’s be clear: If you decide to find out the truth, you will have to spy on your partner.
This could be morally disputed, but at the end, I think, that there is no moral that can justify betrayal or hiding the truth. Therefore, If you honestly think that your partner is cheating, and you are not being just jealous, you should proceed.
The recommendations here below are at your own risk. We do not guarantee or are responsible for any resource presented here as we are not the manufacturers. Notice that some procedures which work for some people do not work for others. Also the performance, and the way to follow and apply these procedures in practice, is essential to their success which is entirely up to you and the adaptation of these methodologies to your own particular case.
Spying on your Partner
Either countries, companies or in our case individuals, spy on each other by tapping their communications and transport resources. This is the easier, cheaper and safer way to get information about someone else and most of the time it works flawlessly.
While your partner is not aware of your suspicions, you have far more advantage than when he has started to take further precautions.
However, with most of these technologies, you can get enough information even if they are more careful, as long as you do it in the proper way.
As I said before, the main resources are communications, transport and money which for individuals mean:
- Cellular Phones
- Telephone
- Computer Communications
- Cars
- Credit Cards
- Bank Statements
Communications
When having an affair, cheaters usually start taking extreme precautions but after a few times, they get more and more careless and start to make silly mistakes and leaving evident clues about the way they operate, making even easier to catch them.
“The main opportunity to catch a cheater is by tapping his communications.”
This is true thanks to the fact that people usually get confident about communicating because they never think that they are being monitored by anyone, also most of the time because they are not aware of the broad range of technologies for spying which I will show you here. Therefore, after going on for a while they get more confident as days go on without being discovered, therefore at the end, communications are the weak point of any cheater. Intelligence professionals always target communication channels, so we will.
One important issue to consider here is that cheaters expect that when you know or suspect something, you will make them a big scene, therefore while you are quiet, they will get more confident communicating.
Communications are vast today and therefore there are several places to search, however cheaters usually will have a preferred way to communicate with each other, so we will have to find which one is their favorite.
- Cell phones.
Personal phones are probably today the most common and comfortable way to communicate between to persons doing something wrong. In this way, cheaters will usually feel very comfortable using their cell phones to communicate.
To start with cell phones, check the messages and numbers dialed and calls received. A large percentage of cheaters is discovered with this simple procedure.
If everything is erased on regular basis, you can be almost sure that communication is done this way, as most people do not erase their logs frequently.
If this is the case, then you try to get the cell phone statement to see the phone numbers dialed.
After developing a list of unknown phones, you can hire a cell phone reversing service to find out who are the owners of the phone numbers you suspect about.
I have used these service, but there are several on the net which can provide you with the service. Read More...
This service will also provide you with and address which will can be useful later when using a GPS car locator or some of the other devices described below.
Sometimes after getting names from a cell phone reversal service, these names won't tell you much about that person, unless you discover that it is someone known by you. Then to make a further investigation without hiring a PI you can use a web investigation service where you will have access to millions of records from everybody. Among these services, the one I have found easier to use is Records Registry, although you can find many others around. The incredible news, is that you can hire both services for around $30 and get an incredible amount of information about the person who is cheating with your partner or probably solve something that has been making your life unconfortable.
If you think that you will confront your partner about his or her cheating activities, knowing the name of the person, his cell phone, his address and more detailed information that you will get from the Records Registry service, will put your partner in a position that he or she won't be able to deny anything because he will notice that you know small details, making him or her believe that you hired a PI, and all this for only $30.
- Computer communication.
There are all kind of PC surveillance software, but at the end most of them will provide you with all the keys typed by your partner and the activity done in the computer.
The most important thing that you should be aware when buying one of these software is that they can be installed stealthy and that the are stable, not crashing your partner’s system all the time.
Also, if your partner’s computer has installed any antivirus or anti-spyware software, make some tests before buying the software to know that they are not detected by such antivirus or spyware.
Usually, there is a continuous race between spyware software and anti spyware detectors; therefore you should run the spy ware before installing to know if it is not discovered by any of the software installed in such computer. Anyway, there is not much to worry if discovered because this kind of software can be sent through email or installed remoteldly, so the suspicions won't be over you.
I have used Win-Spy a stealth monitoring software, with great results, but there are zillions of monitoring software out there with great capabilities.
- Phone communication.
Even at radio Shack you can find devices to tap or record phone conversations, which is and old resource for spying.
Follow the simple instructions included with the device to connect it to the phone wires.
Don’t ever try to tap phone lines without such devices, because connecting a tape recorder or a hearing device directly to the phone wires without these middleware devices, will drop heavily the phone line voltage, making noise or reducing the voice volume of the call making easier to get suspicious from your partner.
With cell phones, phone communication from your own house is unlikely, however if you think it is being performed, just visit your closest Radio Shack store.
- Microphones.
If within your house you have an studio or basement where you think calls are done through a cell phone or even a regular telephone which you are not able to tap, you can install microphones to listen everything is said in such place.
Usually spy microphones are more expensive, but you can use a camera microphone which is pretty cheap and can be found in any camera store.
There are also phone wireless spy devices which can be attached stealthy to the phone and you can hear any conversation performed on such phone line. Although this is a more expensive, the possibilities are endless.
I have also used some devices which can be installed in the phone microphone and the conversation is transmitted through radio wave which can be heard with a regular FM radio.
After covering most communications within your reach, transport resources are the next in importance to catch a cheater. The main transport resource which can be used to track is of course you partner’s car.
Although hearing devices can be installed in your partner's car, they will be useless unless you know where the car is and you are close by.
Usually, locating a car is very useful to catch a cheater on activity, but it can also be very useful to match an address with the information services described above.
Transport Resources
- Car location Devices
Car location is the latest resource to find out where you spouse is at every moment. If communications do not outcome conclusive results, tracking your partner’s car is the most precise way to catch a cheater. At the end, they will have to meet and they will have to travel to the meeting place.
Tracking the whereabouts of your partner can be easily done installing a Stealth GPS Device hidden in your partner’s car, which can be tracked easily through an internet site.
This can be very useful to find regular meeting places and it will be exceptional useful is you want to catch them during an encounter.
There are several GPS devices, but I have found one that has a stealth version which can be easily installed by you and has very good software to monitor movements. Read More...
- Personal Localization devices.
There is also a bunch of personal localization devices which can be hidden within something personal carried always by your spouse, although this solution can be a bit costly.
This kind of devices goes to a higher rank of spying devices and therefore the cost is high. You should use this only as a last resource. However if you used the methods and devices described above and you still haven’t found any clue, probably there is nothing to find.
Money Resources
- Bank Statements.
The last resource is money. As with previous resources, technology can make easier to find the trace of money use.
To catch a cheater, you should focus mainly on how the money is spent as unknown charges could be clear clues to unfaithful activity.
Even if you don’t know exactly your spouse’s income, the spending pattern can be very helpful.
It is very obvious that you won’t have unrestricted access to your spouse’s credit card statements or checkbook statements if he or she has something to hide. However, a bit of detective work will get you one of the statements to analyze carefully.
Additional Resources
- Sperm Detection
Finally there is an additional resource which you can use if you suspect of a cheating wife or girlfriend, the semen detection kit. The Checkmate Semen Detection Kit, can be very useful to find dried semen in your wife or girlfriend underwear. Such semen is left in the underwear after sex and it can be found even if microscopic samples are left. Usually after sex activity the microscopic semen stains are produced during the next 72 hours making it very easy to find unfaithful activity even if you left town for a couple of days.
This test can be performed in less than 5 minutes and it is 100% reliable. Read More...
- More Detailed Information
If you have used most of these resources and you have not found anything, probably there isn't anything to find. However if you still have the feeling that something is happening, do not dismiss your feelings, get additional resources and procedures to catch a cheating spouse within the ebook Catch A Cheating Spuouse, which has even more detailed procedures to catch a cheater and promises results in a few days. Read More...
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