Signs Your Woman Is Cheating

• She starts spending more money or time than usual on clothes and on her appearance in general.
• She starts working overtime more often than usual and she is not at her office when you call.
• She does not answer her cell phone often and she tells you that it was turned on all the time. She doesn’t know what happened.
• She erases all her text messages from her cell phone on a regular basis.
• She has a cell phone you don’t know and especially if the bill arrives any other place but your house.
• She disappears for hours and she says that she was shopping or she went to pick up some groceries.
• You find any method of birth control that you haven’t discussed together about using it.
• She spends more hours than usual on the computer, especially if it is when you are not home or late at night.
• She has a new email account and she doesn’t tell you about it.
• She buys herself new underwear, especially if it is sexier than the one she has always used.
• She stops trusting you her worries and problems.
• She gets nervous when you step into the room where she is using the computer. Changes windows, closes programs or shut down the computer among other actions.
• She invents an excuse to stop wearing her wedding ring or she starts to forget her wedding ring after shower or sleeping often.
• She starts spoiling you (Yes, this is good! Odd, but is always true) with things, actions, etc. she usually did not agree to do it before. Why is this? Well, this is the most common way to ease the guilt for women.
• She stops complaining about things you don’t do that you know she always have complained about. It is related with the one above.
• You feel her more distant and cold every day.

I have to tell you that catching a cheating woman is much harder than catching a man. Women lie better and even if you catch them with inconclusive proofs (or sometime conclusive), she will tell you that he is only a friend and she will do her best to make you feel bad telling you that "how you dare to think" that she is cheating on you, even is she is doing it. This is the first line of defense for a woman.

If you would like to get conclusive proofs, there are two resources I would like to recommend you. Sarah Paul has developed some great techniques to catcha a cheating spouse and Eduard Talourdey, reveal some methods to catch a cheating lover in a short time.

What can you do?

The most important part of the job has to be done within you. You have to convince yourself that you are not in any way the reason of her betrayal. She failed, not you. She is a cheater, not you.

Be careful, when confronting her. She will do her best to make you feel that you failed in something (usually something very stupid) just to justify her betrayal. Don’t fall into her game. For example, she will tell you that she was tired that you did not walk the dog... yes that stupid, but anything to try to cover the real thing... her betrayal.

Take very good advice to keep high your self esteem, either through good books or even professional help. Your self esteem is the first victim of cheating and if you loose it or damage it, you will be defeated. Therefore, the most important advice that humbly you can get from this site is: work on your self esteem as you never did before.

There are some great resources on the Internet and off-line to help you catch a cheating wife, to save your relationship, to monitor any computer and to investigate your wife.

I do not encourage revenge, divorce or any specific action, but you deserve to know the truth, after all, whatever you choose to do, it will be fine if you feel fine.

There is nothing wrong with forgiving and continue your life with that person. She will always know that you forgive her. However, if you decide to continue, you will have to let it go or your life will become bitter.

One very good resource to break free from your partner affair is the book from the Dr. Bob Huizenga which will help you to gain the strength you need for this overwhelming moment of your life.

If you cannot forgive, take the most peaceful way to end the relationship, especially if you have children. Please, have in mind that you are doing that way for yourself and not for the cheater. It was your choice, not a reaction of her betrayal.

Taking the path to end the relationship could be painful, but if you think it is the best for you, do it as quick as possible to avoid pain to yourself. Do not take this choice with rage or after a fight or confrontation, think carefully about it.

You have to know and understand, that this person, that you used to know very well and lived with her so many years, will become a complete stranger and you won’t believe the nasty things she will be capable to do and say causing you so much pain.

You have to be aware that this will be a mini-war and the only way to win the war is to know your enemy as yourself and have the proper strategy.

Therefore, think carefully about it before disclosing your intentions, prepare yourself for them and take the step only when you are ready. Don’t fall in the fighting trap, because she will get relief with her new partner while you will be distressed all the time making you to loose the war.

Think on the elements included in this war, money, properties, kids, etc. and make sure to settle most of the things to your favor before showing your cards. Take legal advice and have your army ready before declaring the war.

I whish you the best to get out of these difficult moments of your life, and whatever you decide to do, get my best wishes to get out of this problem as soon as possible.

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