Signs Your Man Is Cheating

• He starts working overtime more often than usual and he is not at his office when you call.
• He does not answer his cell phone often and he tells you that it was turned on all the time. He tells you that he doesn’t know what happened.
• He erases all his text messages from his cell phone on a regular basis.
• He has a cell phone you don’t know and especially if the bill arrives to his office.
• He wants to try new sex techniques that you never tried before as a couple.
• He carries condoms, especially if you are using the pill.
• He spends more hours than usual on the computer late at night.
• He gets very upset if you call him at the office or asks you not to do it.
• He disappears for long time and you don’t know where he is.
• He gets nervous when you step into the room where he is using the computer. Changes windows, closes programs or shut down the computer among other actions.
• His car smells lightly like woman perfume. Men’s cars are very good revealing cheating information.
• He doesn’t want toys or child seats in his car.
• His clothes smell like a woman, an unfamiliar perfume or have lipstick on them.
• You find unknown charges on his credit card statement.

Even that I know husbands who have cheated their wives for years, usually men are careless and finding if they are cheating is much easier than findind a cheating woman.

Woman have a very special feeling about being cheated, therefore if you have the feeling, the chance that something is happening is very high.

If you would like to get conclusive proofs, there are two resources I would like to recommend you. Sarah Paul has developed some great techniques to catcha a cheating spouse and Eduard Talourdey, reveal some methods to catch a cheating lover in a short time.

What can you do?

The first part of the job has to be done within you. You have to convince yourself that you are not in any way the reason of his betrayal. He failed, not you. He is a cheater, not you. Be careful, when you confront him. He will play the role of being much resented because you have doubts about him. Don’t fall into his game

Take very good advice to keep high your self esteem, either through good books or even professional support. Your self esteem is the first victim of cheating and your most precious asset, therefore, you have to take special care of it during this painful process.

There are some great resources on the Internet and off-line to help you catch a cheating husband, to save your relationship, to monitor any computer and to investigate your husband.

I do not encourage revenge, divorce or any specific action, but you deserve to know the truth, after all, whatever you choose to do after knowing the truth, it will be fine if you feel ok.

There is nothing wrong with forgiving and continue your life with that person. He will always know that you forgave him. However, if you decide to continue, you will have to let it go or your life will become bitter.

One very good resource to break free from your partner affair is the book from the Dr. Bob Huizenga which will help you to gain the strength you need for this terrible moment in your life.

If you cannot forgive him, take the most peaceful way to end the relationship, especially if you have children. Please, have in mind that you are doing that way for yourself and not for the cheater. You are not doing it because he cheats on you, but because it is the best for you.

Taking the path to end the relationship will be painful, but if you think that it is the best for you, do it as quick as possible to avoid pain to yourself. Do not waste your time trying to make his life miserable, that will make your life miserable instead and you have a precious life ahead which will get much better than now.

Do not take this choice with rage or after a fight or confrontation, think carefully about it. You have to know and understand, that this person, that you used to know very well and live with him so many years, will become a complete stranger and you won’t believe the nasty things he is capable to do and say causing you so much pain.

You have to be aware that this will be a mini-war and the only way to win the war is to know your enemy as yourself. So think about it, prepare yourself and take the step when you are ready. Don’t fall in the fighting trap, because he will get relief and support with his mistress while you will be distressed all the time making you weaker and more exposed to loose the war.

Think in all the elements included in this war, money, properties, kids, etc. and make sure to settle most of the things to your favor before showing your cards.

The reason is on your side, you did nothing wrong, so keeping the calm is another important asset.

I whish you the best to get out of these difficult moments of your life, and whatever you choose to do, god will bless you.

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